failure on the human level may feel like a curse but on the level of spiritual unfolding it can be a blessing in disguise. . . . This shift to the spiritual perspective shows us the relative value of success in God’s eyes. The Pharisee, who was the symbol of human success, was a failure before God in comparison to the humble Publican. . . . Instead of making failure an occasion for self-flagellation, we can see it in faith as a condition for our spiritual progress
Susan Muto and Adrian van Kaam, Practicing the Prayer of Presence, 91-93
Failure ploughs the soil of my soul;
it prepares me to receive the seed of the gospel.
Failure bends my back low,
the right stance to carry my daily cross.
Failure humbles me into the common man,
so I may learn to love my neighbour.
Failure pierces my heart with pain,
that I may know the Suffering Servant.
–by Wan Phek How